On over-gifting, under-gifting, and finding the right present – my column for the Financial Times this week:
“Perhaps you should give only what establishes trust, or creates welcome surprise, though this is utopian — much of gift-giving is driven by the impulse to flatter, to bribe or to appease a guilty conscience. Old manuscripts — Indian, Chinese and medieval Italian — are a reminder that gift-giving has always been a complicated business, pocked with cultural pitfalls, often trapping givers into an endless cycle of reciprocity. A classic dilemma: what to give the man or woman who already had an empire at their disposal?”
https://www.ft.com/content/74ae32e2-3955-11e7-ac89-b01cc67cfeec
nilanjana s roy 
3 responses to “The FT column: Present, please”
I am bad with selecting gifts and hope I can read the column at a later stage for to read apparently asking one to pay for subscription. The dodo is a beautiful present to give.
Thanks, Vishal. The FT has a policy asking columnists not to share content from behind their paywall, but I think some
of them are free to read from time to time.
Thanks much Nilanjana and for putting the amazing excerpt in your latest kal. Every word is pricelessly written:)